Are you Tired of Feeling Empty and Dissatisfied? What happens when you fill up on Jesus and Not Sinful Pleasures.
Have you ever indulged in something that fed your deepest desires, maybe a piece of that savory chocolate cake, or an addiction that you repeatedly give in to that leaves you briefly satisfied but leaves your soul empty? If so, you are not alone.
You've heard the familiar saying, "We all struggle with something," and it's true. For some, we chase approval and attention. For others, it's the constant lure of fame, wealth, and status. And if we're honest, we will admit that whatever the "it" is, it leaves us in a spinning cycle of desire, pleasure, temporary satisfaction, and long-lasting disappointment and despair. Why? Because our "it" was never meant to replace "Him," Jesus.
In the book of Ecclesiastes, we get to meet King Solomon, the wisest and richest man who ever lived. King Solomon, the son of King David, asked the Lord for wisdom to help him lead the people of Israel after his father's death. God was pleased with what he asked for and then blessed Solomon with abundant wisdom, favor, and wealth because he did not ask the Lord for temporary riches and fame.
And yet, Solomon, with all the wisdom from on high, struggled with lust for women and countless other pleasures he pursued, leading him down the wrong path of unrighteous behavior. Thankfully, he was able to give us an honest account of his journey from the Word of God to help expose the peril of seeking empty calories; anything that feeds our desires but starves our souls.
In Ecclesiastes 2;10-11, King Solomon says, “I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure. My heart took delight in all my labor, and this was the reward for all my toil. Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun.”
Powerful words from a man with absolute power, unlimited resources and who could do whatever he wanted, when he wanted, and with whomever he wanted, without restraint. Notice, too, that Solomon did not say that chasing pleasures didn't give him joy or satisfaction; on the contrary.
Experiencing endless gratification from things we love outside of the will of God can leave us satisfied and even joyful for a little while. The problem is, that when it’s over, it’s over, and our brief moment of sinful bliss will eventually leave us ashamed and unfulfilled because we traded the fullness of Christ for a temporary fix.
If you can relate to this, here are three points to meditate on this week:
Emptiness Exposed #1: Satisfaction and fulfillment are different.
When we chase satisfaction, we become preoccupied with ourselves and seek temporary gratification to fulfill us. For example, when we are consumed with our appearance and seeking others' attention, we may ask ourselves, "Do I look good now?" On the other hand, when our focus is on our fulfillment in Christ, we ask ourselves, "Am I becoming who the Lord wants me to be?"
Emptiness Exposed #2: Pleasure doesn't mean purpose.
Temporary pleasures will never reveal God's best for our lives. God's purpose for you will always culminate in producing real joy, peace, fulfillment, and result in eternal rewards. Temporary pleasures will always leave us empty but when we crave Him above all else, we experience His plan and purpose that will always satisfy.
Emptiness Exposed #3: Jesus' joy isn't dependent on your circumstances.
When you walk every day with Jesus, you can experience fullness of joy that is not dependent upon your daily experiences, whether they are good or bad. For example, you can experience Jesus' joy whether you are healthy or sick, or whether you've been hired or fired. You can have the joy of Christ when you have money in the bank or when your account is overdrawn. You can have joy in the Lord when you're married or still single.
So, here's the bottom line: Jesus freely gives us what we cannot gain.
When we chase after God rather than material things, God will give us everything we need without our having to attain it on our own. You can't earn God's favor. You can't buy it, and you can't manufacture it. God has already given you everything you need to live a fulfilled and purposeful life. He gave you Himself, and that's all you need to find the peace, joy, and fulfillment you've been seeking outside of Himself.
This week, challenge yourself to ask this question every time you feel the urge to chase a temporary pleasure, whether it's scrolling on social media, shopping, or trying to impress or seek validation from others. ask yourself: "What am I really hungry for?" And at that moment, turn to Jesus and ask Him to fill those empty calories you just consumed, or are tempted to indulge in, so you can experience His presence, purpose, and His joy, and not feel empty.